Lovingkindness For Your Enemies – Ep 97
In this podcast Professor Thurman & Sharon Salzberg discuss the practice of lovingkindness meditation and it’s power to change one’s relationship with difficult people, emotions & situations.
Includes a brief introduction to lovingkindness practice & dialog with retreat participants.
Recorded at the 2009 Tibet House US Retreat “Working With Your Enemies” at Menla Retreat in Phoenicia, New York.
Photo by James Pond on Unsplash
“Normally, we donāt want to love someone weāre in an adverse relationship with. We may feel it means giving in, surrendering, or giving up our values. But real love means loving them too.
Over the years that Iāve taught lovingkindness, Iāve encountered many people who are skeptical about the whole thing. āIf I were to develop a more loving heart,ā they think, āIād have to give more money, I wouldnāt take a stand, I wouldnāt protect myself, Iād just sort of smile.ā
If we think thatās what love means, what a degraded notion of love weāve come to! Thereās something empowering in recapturing the word āloveā as something strong and unafraid.”
Sharon Salzberg from www.lionsroar.com.
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The songs āTrance Tibetā & āDancing Lingā by Tenzin Choegyal from the album āHeart Sutraā (2004) by Ethno Super Lounge are used on the Bob Thurman Podcast with artistās permission, all rights reserved.
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